Common divorce questions

How do I start a divorce?

A divorce usually starts when one spouse files a petition or complaint with the court in the state and county where they qualify to file, then makes sure the other spouse receives the papers. The exact documents and steps depend on your state.

What information should I gather first?

Your marriage date and place, both spouses' addresses, children's names and birthdates, income, a list of property and debts, and any existing agreements. Having this ready makes the paperwork faster.

Can I get divorced without a lawyer?

Many people choose to represent themselves in divorce proceedings. Requirements and procedures vary by state and by individual case. Divorce Liaison helps self-represented users organize divorce information and documents, but does not provide legal advice or determine whether self-representation is appropriate for a particular person. If your case is contested or involves safety concerns or complex assets, speaking with a licensed attorney is recommended.

Does Divorce Liaison give legal advice?

No. Divorce Liaison is not a law firm. It helps you organize and prepare your own paperwork using plain-language questions and state-specific guidance.

What is an uncontested divorce?

An uncontested divorce is one where both spouses agree on the major issues — property, debts, support and, if there are children, parenting. It is usually faster and less expensive than a contested divorce.

What if we agree on most things but not everything?

Unresolved issues can make a case contested. Many couples work out the remaining points first, sometimes with mediation. Our Pre-Divorce Agreements can help you put agreements in writing.

Which divorce forms do I need?

It depends on your state and your situation, such as whether you have children or property. With Divorce Liaison you answer factual questions and the document path is organized for you — you don't choose forms yourself.

This differs by state. Your state guide covers the rules that apply where you will file, and you should confirm current requirements with your local court.

Where do official court forms come from?

Official forms are published by state courts. Divorce Liaison links to official court sources and never recreates official court forms.

Can we do our own divorce if we have children?

Often yes, if you agree on parenting time, decision-making and support. Divorces with children usually need extra documents, such as a parenting plan and child support information, and some states require a parenting class.

This differs by state. Your state guide covers the rules that apply where you will file, and you should confirm current requirements with your local court.

How is property divided in a divorce?

States follow different rules for dividing property. In an uncontested divorce, spouses usually agree on who keeps what and write it into a settlement agreement that the court reviews.

This differs by state. Your state guide covers the rules that apply where you will file, and you should confirm current requirements with your local court.

What happens to our debts?

Spouses typically agree on who will pay each debt. A divorce agreement is between the spouses — it does not change a lender's rights, so a creditor may still pursue anyone whose name is on the account.

What if my spouse won't sign or respond?

Many states allow a divorce to continue if the other spouse was properly served and does not respond, but the steps and waiting times differ and the process is more involved. Divorce Liaison kits are designed for cooperative divorces; if your spouse won't participate, consider speaking with an attorney.

This differs by state. Your state guide covers the rules that apply where you will file, and you should confirm current requirements with your local court.

How much does it cost to file for divorce?

Court filing fees are set by each state and sometimes each county, and are paid directly to the court. They are not included in Divorce Liaison prices.

This differs by state. Your state guide covers the rules that apply where you will file, and you should confirm current requirements with your local court.

Can I get the filing fee waived?

Most courts let people with financial hardship ask to waive or reduce the filing fee by submitting a request with information about income and expenses.

This differs by state. Your state guide covers the rules that apply where you will file, and you should confirm current requirements with your local court.

How long do I have to live in a state before filing?

Most states require at least one spouse to have lived in the state for a minimum period before filing. The length varies by state.

This differs by state. Your state guide covers the rules that apply where you will file, and you should confirm current requirements with your local court.

How long does a divorce take?

Some states have a mandatory waiting period between filing and the final judgment, and court schedules vary. An agreed divorce with complete paperwork is usually the fastest route.

This differs by state. Your state guide covers the rules that apply where you will file, and you should confirm current requirements with your local court.

How do I file my papers with the court?

Depending on your court, you may file in person at the clerk's office, by mail, or through an online e-filing system. You then need to get a copy to your spouse in a way the court accepts.

This differs by state. Your state guide covers the rules that apply where you will file, and you should confirm current requirements with your local court.

What does Divorce Liaison cost?

Creating an account and answering the questions is free. You pay only when you choose a product. Current prices are on the pricing page.

Which states does Divorce Liaison support?

Divorce Liaison currently supports 21 states and jurisdictions, with more added over time.